San Sarv Sm 5Trainee Nun Rule 5

The Fifth Training Rule for a Nun in Training (Śikṣamānā 5)

Context

This rule belongs to the Vinaya Piṭaka, in the section prescribing rules for nuns in training (Śikṣamānā). In the Theravāda tradition, the stage of a nun in training is an important intermediate stage between laywoman and bhikkhunī who has received full ordination. This period usually lasts two years, during which the nun in training must observe eighty modes (ākāra) in order to prepare her mind and conduct for formal renunciation.

The Vinaya Piṭaka was compiled after the First Council, under the leadership of Venerable Mahākāśyapa, in order to protect the Sangha and maintain the purity of the Buddhist institution. Each rule arose from specific circumstances, often related to faults or inappropriate conduct by disciples. The study of these modes helps the nun in training understand the spirit of practice and prepare her mind for greater responsibilities.

Main Content

The Fifth Mode (Śikṣamānā 5) states: “A nun in training must not deliberately prolong conversation with a male monastic beyond three times, except for reasons of Dharma teaching or the work of the Buddhist institution.”

This rule arises from the basic principle of caution between men and women. In Buddhism, although the six faculties are cultivated in order to transcend all craving, the initial stage of practice requires avoiding circumstances that easily cause distraction or arouse the mind. Restricting communication is not meant to deny gender or create psychological barriers, but to protect concentration on the meaning of the Buddhadharma.

The phrase “three times” (tikkhatuṃ) is not merely a specific number, but expresses the principle of “leaving a measure”: maintaining a safe distance, a reasonable boundary. This allows necessary communication for reasons of study and practice or institutional duties, while avoiding lengthy intimate conversations that could lead to personal attachment.